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| Oct 22, 2007 12:26 am |
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Marvelous Monday Motivation |
Rasheed Hooda
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"When you change the way you see things, the things you see change." --- Wayne Dyer
After years of rocky relationship and playing the blame game, I decided to change the way I saw my wife's behavior. Instead of seeing her as the cause of all problems and frustrations in my life, I decided to see her as my biggest supporter and ally on my path to success.
Having made that decision I went to sleep only to meet a different person in wife's body the next morning. This lady fixed me breakfast instead of my asking her if she wanted to join me for a cup of coffee or wanted some breakfast. The conversation was the usual stuff, and her words and tone were the same, but my reaction to them was different. She wasn't nagging at me, she was presenting me with areas where I can improve. Instead of defending myself, I was thanking her for her insight.
I got more work done that day and even had time to do some chores at home. It felt good. It was an instant change, and it has continued that way. The only time we get into arguments any more is when I am feeling low or down on myself. I quickly realized that she is simply reflecting my mood. It is my anger at myself that makes me feel that I have a need to defend myself and I see her behavior as an attack rather than helpful suggestions. When I change the way I see things, the things I see change.
I have learned to see myself in a positive light and she reflects my confidence back to me. Wow, this is great!
I have been receiving a stream of inspiration lately and I have been writing it down. I would like to share what I wrote down yesterday morning.
"There are no problems, obstacles, or challenges. There is only the Highest Good. ALWAYS!"
I have been living in a state of bliss for the past few days. I have been more productive because instead of worrying, I am living more confidently that life is great and things are working out just fine. As I become more productive, I see more proof that things are working out the way they should.
So here is a suggestion for you to apply in helping you change the way you see things. Instead of saying (or thinking) that Mondays are a terrible way to spend 1/7th of your life, say or think, Mondays are a Marvelous way to live 1/7th of your life.
Have a Marvelous Monday and a Wonderful Week.
Rasheed
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