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| Aug 08, 2008 11:18 pm |
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re: Knowing when to let go |
Marilyn Jenett
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Welcome to the network, Nikkole. I believe you'll find a lot of inspiration here.
Do you know what my opinion is about your delimma?
I don't think people are the least bit concerned about whether you are "lazy or uncommitted." Why? Because most people are just too concerned about themselves to be focusing on someone else.
Of course I may be off base here, but I think your concerns are more related to your own feelings about yourself and the facts that you had to let this idea go at that time. There is no broader sense to consider now. There is only your personal sense of worth. And only YOU can keep that intact. It doesn't matter what others' perceptions are. You just need to acknowledge to yourself that you did the best you could do at that time. And maybe it was just about the timing. But you certainly were not lazy. You gave it a good go. It was the others who were not stepping up to the plate. Give yourself the credit you deserve.
From what you wrote, the Committee has not abandoned you and kept you on the agenda so it looks like they are offering some support and you don't realize it. You are too involved in what they "might" be thinking.
The most important thing to understand here as it relates to the laws is this...
What YOU are thinking and feeling will reach out to others and they will pick it up on a subconscious level. So I recommend that you give yourself a big hug, knowing that you put forth plenty of effort. And know that others will recognize this also. Don't let your thought life go the other way.
I wrote an article titled "Can We Change People?" in which I state...(this will be out of context from the whole article, but I thought it was worth sharing)...
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Remember this principle? It is our job to see and feel the end result. It is the Universe's job to get us there.
In the area of marketing, we must make the effort to project to others what we desire to project - as this determines the feedback and results we get - or else we will subconsciously respond to their ideas about us.
I hope this helps...
Marilyn
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