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| Jul 08, 2010 3:06 pm |
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re: re: re: re: re: `in conversation' on wedding and divorce |
| Vijaylakshmi Vardan
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Dear LKji, Paddu, Charu annna, PBB & the rest,
Marriage is a personal thing between two individuals.
Nobody can say, what goes on between two ppl in a maariage. So all predictions and analysis are not wholly true about any marriage. Mostly the failure of a marriage is because of both the parties.
In the old times, ppl married and stayed together for 50 years or more because women were not economically independent and nor did they have the mind-set to come out of a marriage. Also, they married very young, so at that age, two ppl can get used to eath other.
But nowadays, ppl marry late, women are eco. inde., so lots of ego clashes between partners.
We also expect too much from marriage. Till now, all men expect their wives to be typically WIFE and also earn (go out to work).
Men have not changed all that much. Laws were convenient to them in all religions, and they put that factor into use. Women have gone ahead in all fields. So there is a lot of heart-burn among the so-called modern men.
Quite LONG!
bye! for now while you digest all this.
VV
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