Sue,
If the subject is already in denial, they will fight about whatever. If we fight them back, they will get very defensive.
Draw them out. Let them feel safe and the right stuff will begin to flow.
Ken
> Sue Tosto wrote:
> Thhhhhhhhppppppppppptttt ... Rasberry's for those unfamiliar with the term :)
>
>Wanna fight? Anyone? or would you prefer to draw someone out.
>
>> Eric Sohn wrote:
>> What if we were to rephrase "making people fight" into "drawing people out to express their views and opinions in an open and safe environment" ...
>>Oh, that's an interesting rephrasing... Let's open the floor for this one...
>>Would "drawing people out in an open and safe environment" produce different results than "making people fight"? How so?
>>Coach Eric
>>Time for someone besides Sue (nothin' personal, Sue!)
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