But JiaLing would not buy into
that traditional female mindset and decided she would enter a field of
business that would allow her to truly help people and also achieve
great financial success for herself. She currently lives in Palm
Desert. Her older daughter lives and works in New Zealand and her
younger daughter is in college in San Diego. Although she is paying for
that daughter's education, she is teaching her daughters to be
independent and self sufficient women and to transcend cultural
JiaLing sold property she owned
in New Zealand in order to finance her stay in America while she
pursued her new life and desire to succeed in business. She chose to be
in the financial field, although she had no prior background. For the
past five years she studied full time in order to receive the various
licenses she would need to pursue her goal. She first got the basic
license that would allow her to become an insurance agent but she had
no intention of selling regular insurance. She had her sights set on a
higher, more lucrative goal - she wanted to become a financial advisor
to help clients to keep, protect and grow their financial assets. In
order to do that, there were two more exams she would need to pass -
and the final one was the very difficult S63 exam that would get her
the certification and variable license she needed to become a financial
advisor for the brokerage she chose in San Diego.
This past year, JiaLing studied
diligently and took the S63 exam twice. She failed both
times. But she also would not give up. She has been living
off her reserve funds and knew that she would HAVE to pass that exam
somehow. No, she would not give up.
JiaLing was one of the
listeners on the call when I was interviewed by marketing guru Adam
Urbanksi in late August. Although she was on Adam Urbanski's mailing
list, she had never attended any of his calls before. But when he
announced he would be interviewing me, something within told her that
she had to attend. She knew she had to hear me speak. She
contacted me a couple of weeks later. She told me that I was the mentor
she had been looking for all her life. I agreed to take her on as a
private student and she was very generous. We now know that the
Universe brought us together through synchroncity and guidance.
I asked JiaLing what the most
important goal in her life was at this time, that I could help her
achieve. She didn't skip a beat when she said she had to pass that SEC
exam. She was convinced that she could find her success in that field
helping others if she could just get her certification. But that exam
is considered the most brutal exam in the U.S. - a test that is hard to
pass and that more people fail than any other exam. In fact, those in
the financial field say that this exam is designed for failure, not for
passing, to keep the number of financial advisors limited and
The next exam date was
scheduled for November 19th. I had two months to prepare her. If she
didn't pass this next time, she could not take the test again for
another 6 months. And I wanted this as much as she did. Her success
would be my success. I felt that this was a challenge and "test" for my
growth as well.
I knew this would require a
"miracle." Why? Because JiaLing is Chinese and English is her second
language. As she says, she speaks "Chinglish." :-) And the S63 exam is
an exam that even those whose first language is English don't pass
easily. She explained to me that in the Chinese language
(Mandarin) there is no conjugation so English is not an easy language
for the Chinese to learn. Unless they have had prior background in
finance or stocks, for someone whose native tongue is Mandarin to take
one of the most difficult exams in the business world is...well, I
guess we can safely say that this little powerhouse of a woman needs
challenge in her life :-)
My work was cut out for me. A miracle indeed. But I know that miracles
are nothing more than alignment with universal laws. And I have
absolute faith in those laws.
I became determined that
JiaLing would pass the exam - not only from study, she had gone that
route and would continue - but she would pass using the mental and
spiritual prosperity laws. I felt that the Universe had brought her to
me for that reason. She had been searching for years to understand the
universal laws (what she sometimes refers to as the "natural" laws).
She was like a sponge - almost childlike (childlike, not childish) - in
absorbing what I gave her - my written lessons, my mentoring, the
audios. If she didn't understand something, I would do my
best to explain. And if she still couldn't grasp it completely - she
accepted it anyway. In essence, JiaLing put her complete trust and
faith in me and never questioned a principle of the teaching, even if
it wasn't totally understood. She embraced and accepted what I gave
her. She followed every instruction. She devoted herself to our work
together. Her continuous gratitude for our association has touched me
On my part? JiaLing truly
became my mission. I can honestly say I used every "trick" in my
metaphysical toolbox to prepare her for that exam. I felt guided as I
taught and used every principle I knew to ensure her success. And with
those tricks I conditioned her to accept that she had already passed
the exam. Before she met me she was getting 50s on the home
trial tests. As we worked together, she began to get 80s on the home
tests and a couple of weeks ago she hit 90%. I knew our miracle was
happening and that all things are possible if we can convince our
deeper mind that the miracle already exists.
At the start, I conditioned her
to believe that she would attract everything she needed to pass the
exam. At one point she had to go to Chicago to take the legal seminar
from a professor who taught it. That professor offered to create a
special program to help her to study at home and he did. She was indeed
attracting what she needed. But...there is a base of about 50,000
questions from which the computer will randomly choose the 65 questions
someone would get when they take the state exam. So I not only
conditioned JiaLing to accept that she had already passed the
exam. I explained to her that once her subconscious mind and
Universal Mind accepts that she has already passed the exam - mountains
will move and cyberspace will move and all the elements will come
together to make sure that she passes because that is the LAW. Once we
accept the belief consciously and unconsciously - the nature of the law
is compulsive and MUST fulfill our vision. We don't have to know how it
will happen. But it must happen. That is the law.
Therefore I told JiaLing that
based on her deeper belief we are establishing in her mind, the
computer will give her the questions that she can answer correctly to
pass the exam. And further, even if she didn't know the answers and had
to guess - she would automatically guess the right answers. She was
stunned and completely fascinated by this statement as it seemed so
unbelievable to the rational mind - but she believed in me and knew I
would only tell her the truth and she accepted it. She believed me when
I explained that our success is not based on the rational. She was very
excited about this.
We also established a mental
vision of JiaLing jumping up and down outside of the test center after
she passed her exam. She felt the joy of her answered prayer whenever
she thought about it and prior to sleep. I even sent her a beautiful
card congratulating her on passing the exam and we often spoke as if
she had passed it. All of this was prior to her taking the actual exam.
Wednesday, November 19th, JiaLing took the S63 exam...
Passing score is 70%. Jialing
passed with a score of 71%. I often say that "One with God is a
majority." And God - the Universe - was indeed smiling on us that day.
I say "us" because I felt like I had also passed a very intricate test
of my own. JiaLing has caused me to stretch my abilities as a mentor.
She has helped me grow as a teacher of these laws.
When we talked on her cell
phone she was screaming with excitement. And yes, she had jumped up and
down outside the test center. Even took a photo of herself with her
cell phone :-)
And do you want to know the
She said that the most
unbelievable thing had happened. She said in the years she had taken
the exams this has never happened before: the computer actually gave
her a couple of questions in duplicate!! And some of the
questions were simple. Also, there is a timer that let's you know when
you only have five minutes left on the test. When that happened, she
didn't have time to read the rest of the questions, so she had to guess
the rest of the answers.
Ah, Infinite Intelligence knows
just what to do to fulfill our vision.
JiaLing, LiChyin CHU now has
her certification and she can start immediately to attract and help
clients secure their assets as a fully licensed financial advisor.. And
she is determined to make her first million in America - for a start.
Which reminds me.... She said
that I will be mentoring her forever. So my work with her has just
P.S. JiaLing says she is preparing her own statement for me to share
with you. But she says it must be a composition - and I can't wait to
see it. She writes well, intelligently and from the heart, even with
her Chinglish. Stay tuned...
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