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Jan 03, 2010 9:35 amBecoming a Modern Person#

John Stephen Veitch

20 years ago I wrote in my journal some notes about becoming a modern person. Ten years ago I revised those ideas based on the new learning in my journal. Now as 2010 opens I'd like to present those ideas again. How do these ideas contribute to your own open future?

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An Original DocumentBecoming a Modern Person

by John S Veitch


Am I a Member? Am I seen as a Modern Person?

First Draft - 1992

Human beings work best when they are recognised by others as "members" of the group.  Maintaining your "membership" demands that you are recognised as a modern person by other people.  This essay explores what being a modern person might demand.

You can cease to be a member of your community for reasons of age, or training, or experience, or culture, other people no longer see you as one of them.  If you can't get selected in the team, you can't play the game.  So I began to think about what a modern person should be, and to make an effort to become one.

My journal in 1992 contains this entry.
Being a modern person:
  • 1) Slim firm body (exercised)
  • 2) Fat reduced and high fiber diet
  • 3) No smoking and moderate alcohol consumption
  • 4) Casual dress and easy care hairstyle.
  • 5) Unique identity based on self-knowledge
  • 6) Skilled in communication: Computers, Writing, Public Speaking, and Interpersonal Skills.
  • 7) Developing a Personal Database.
  • 8) Life Long Learning
  • 9) Self Reliant and Confident
  • 10) Active team Member

To become a "modern person" you need to understand who you are in the context of being a member of your own local community.  Hence what is appropriate for me may not be appropriate for you, or may not be appropriate in your local community context.

The alternative to being a modern person is to be a person deprived of power.  People without power are told what to do, told where to go and how to behave. People without power are offered the jobs other people don't want at menial rates of pay. People without power learn to defend themselves by becoming tribal people.  They join gangs of various types seeking collective security.  Some of these groups operate openly and legally, others are pushed to the margins and are illegal.

In New Zealand in the past 20 years companies and government departments have downsized, and government has withdrawn from as much commercial activity as possible.  This is called deregulation and light-handed management.  New Zealand is almost fully exposed to every change in the international economic climate.  (The USA, which claims to be a champion of free trade is highly regulated, compared with us.) In particular we are exposed to the unpleasant fact the world pay rate for labor is about as much per day as most of us expect to earn every hour.  Goods are relatively cheap in New Zealand, but many industries that once thrived here have ceased to be.  Trade unions have been decimated by changes in the law and the fact that there's no demand for labor.  New Zealand society is being described as "atomistic" in the sense that we are split apart into individual units. New Zealand is an early adopter of new technology.  Internet use here is behind the USA, but not far behind. The number of ISP connections per 1000 people in NZ is high.  Even so the community is dividing into those who use the Internet intensively every day, and those who only use it on a casual basis.  The Internet is certainly changing what it means to be a modern person.

I've looked through my journal over recent months and made a new list of characteristics of modern people.  Below is the 1999 version. I can't be sure how helpful this is.  My list of characteristics makes sense to me, but it's quite unlike any list of desirable characteristics I've seen before.  The list arises from my journal, from my unique collection of data.  The information I can extract from my journal is likely to be adapted to me and my community.  I trust the view I've developed as it applies to me.

Being a "modern person" (1999)

Self Maintenance

  • Tries to live in the real world - copes with information overload.
  • Maintains a close personal relationship with someone else. (Married)
  • Has some hobbies and interests beyond work and family.
  • Maintains good health, physically fit, eating wholesome foods.  Non-smoker.
  • Maintains an inventory of skills and expertise. Maintains own data in several areas.

Attitudes Needed

  • Adapted to many cultural inputs - bigotry and racism are undesirable.
  • Adapted to many languages: Not shocked when other people use their own language.
  • A modern person is able to maintain a sense of being grounded in a world that is continually changing and where uncertainty is high.
  • To be hopeful about the future of the world and about finding an effective place in it.

Outputs Required

  • Is skilled in reading, writing and speaking. - A communicator.
  • Has confidence to act within the constraints of team membership. Has self-knowledge.
  • Is able to organize many activities according to priority, and maintain a schedule or work.
  • Socially active - A member of several social and community groups.
  • A leader - Taking an active part in clubs, and organisations. An opinion maker.

Only after working on this essay for many hours did I realize that the 1999 list is much more idealized than the 1992 list.  Those changes are largely the effect of my experience on the Internet.

How do I cope in trying to live as a modern person?  I spend about two hours a day just processing data for personal reasons.  I am a member of four specialist lists, and I get most of my "news" from lists or non-commercial radio.  Generally I don't search the WWW unless I know what I'm looking for.  I listen to the radio in background mode 3-4 hours a day.  I read a lot, but not fiction, and in recent times not usually books.  I don't write in my journal daily.  I tend to have bursts of enthusiasm for writing (2-3 times most weeks.) and I usually explore the connection between my life and the world.  Finding time to exercise (dancing and running) is a problem.

The philosopher Nietzsche said, "Every idealism that ignores reality is a damaging illusion." Love may be such an illusion.  If the love is overplayed, unrealistic, an infatuation, there is a sharing of pseudo-information, each kiss is like a poisoned kiss. Eventually the "great love" is revealed as "a false love." False data, pseudo-information, propaganda and false statements are the poison that a modern person must defend against.

This is a significant challenge to people who live in the information age or a knowledge based society.  The art world has been torn by misrepresentations of grand masters.  There have been many cases where "Rembrandt's" sold by the most reputable agents still turn out to be "fakes".  Buyers are not very happy to know that the very nice painting, is still a nice painting, even if it's not a Rembrandt.  The lesson here is that each of us has to be responsible for our own decisions about what has value. 

Tribal people live by superstition and fear. The tribal leaders chose the way; and acceptance of the elders view is expected. Modern people need to deal with real data, and develop an independant of viewpoint, yet not so independent that one is seen to be outside the team. Having your own carefully selected and evaluated data puts you a step ahead.  Not having your own data forces you to rely on the information other people offer you.  This is equivalent to outsourcing your ability to think and evaluate.

A modern person tries to live in the real world.  That demands the ability to deal with huge amounts of data every day.  The process of continually rejecting a flow of data, be it advertising, propaganda or other irrelevant communication, impacts on stress levels.  A modern person will turn off most of that noise, listen to select radio stations, read only a small section of the newspaper, and watch minimal television.  Advertising at a modern person is likely to be ineffective.  He or she is turned off or tuned out.  Life is filled with more important and more interesting things to do than consuming political and commercial propaganda.

Each individual needs to construct an inventory of skills and knowledge so that he or she can become "a good instrument" in the community.  In making that choice you decide who you will be.  You choose the "myth" that you will live by, the story of your life. This choice finally answers the question "who owns you?" To what source of influence or authority do you defer? What is the source of legitimacy?" This story replaces the authority of the tribe, replaces chaos, and also provides you with a clear identity.  People who do not have the courage to choose who they will be, remain tribal people rather than becoming "modern people".  Living your story allows other modern people to recognize you as a member.  If you maintain a journal it will contain lots of evidence of who you are and what's important in your life.

We develop an allegiance to certain products, beliefs and behaviours that seem to be part of us.  Everyone has interests to protect, reputations, sources of income, power bases, friends and family, or ways to have fun.  Protecting these interests may appear more important in the short run than the truth.  Our allegiances prevent us from making the best decisions.  In order to be seen as responsible and professional we are forced into positions where each "problem" has a "solution" but we also need to be "right" at all costs.  We are forced to compromise.  Accepting the lies that support our allegiances as "truth" is destructive to our normal defenses against harm.  We judge ourselves by our intention and we judge others by what they do.

When things go wrong for us we invent stories to cover our tracks. There is likely to be a touch of fraud in our lives.  We don't deal with that fraud even when we become aware of it.  We agree not to rock the boat.  We become selectively aware of what's happening, or selectively blind to what we don't want to know about. There is a conspiracy of denial that aims to maintain status, respect, membership and incomes.  A modern person is not immune to having conflicting allegiances and confused values. However a modern person is more likely to be aware of these conflicts and may on occasion be able to draw attention to the problem.  In a society where good information is critical, our entire mode of operation is sabotaged if the information base is corrupted.  If our information is unreliable there can be no knowledge based society, in the extreme case no civil society at all.

Martin Luther discovered that the price of standing up for the truth was likely to be death.  He had been the idol of the Church, the shining light among its scholars. Yet by following that path and being true to what he knew, he came into direct conflict with the Church, and an outcast from it.

If the knowledge based society becomes a reality, people who have that sort of personal integrity will be sorely needed.  That's why I think those who maintain journals have much to offer.  Journal writers seek to understand and become defenders of the truth as they know it.  That stance has an honourable place in the history of the world.

A modern person understands the critical role that knowledge plays in daily life.  Modern people are human, they can make mistakes, but they also have self knowledge.  They look in the mirror and see what's really there, they see with open eyes.  Modern people know that for themselves most things can be changed by attitude, by action and by choosing friends wisely. 

We can create "hell on earth" for the whole world, environmental destruction, economic chaos, resource wars, corrupt religious and political practices, the enslavement of impoverished people is possible future most easily achieved.  When millions of people understand the need, each one at a personal level and each community at a local level, building a new world might be possible. 

When I was a child I dreamed of a better world.  I fully expected that by now we might be some way towards that objective.  That's not the case.  I am responsible for the shambles we have made.  I have a vision now of what went wrong and why, but far too late.  Many of the ideas that I've supported for much of my life are themselves the problem.  I can't be sure now that good outcomes are possible, but I know we must try.  Perhaps that understanding is the mark of a modern person.


John Stephen Veitch

Printed from http://www.ate.co.nz/internet/modernperson.html



John Stephen Veitch; The Network Ambassador
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Jan 07, 2010 11:18 amBecoming a Modern Person - Personal Update 2009#

John Stephen Veitch
So how am I doing 10 years later? Let's see.

Self Maintenance

* Tries to live in the real world - copes with information overload. Check
* Maintains a close personal relationship with someone else. (Married) Check
* Has some hobbies and interests beyond work and family. Check
* Maintains good health, physically fit, eating wholesome foods. Non-smoker. Check, but I'm not as fit as I should be. Putting on a pound or two.
* Maintains an inventory of skills and expertise. Maintains own data in several areas. Check

Attitudes Needed

* Adapted to many cultural inputs - bigotry and racism are undesirable. Check
* Adapted to many languages: Not shocked when other people use their own language. Check
* A modern person is able to maintain a sense of being grounded in a world that is continually changing and where uncertainty is high. Check
* To be hopeful about the future of the world and about finding an effective place in it. ? Less hopeful after CPO15, but I still think it's possible for my grandchildren to live a fulfilling life. They will face global problems far more serious than I ever knew. They will less wealthy than we were.

Outputs Required

* Is skilled in reading, writing and speaking. - A communicator. Check
* Has confidence to act within the constraints of team membership. Has self-knowledge. Can I check that? Check
* Is able to organize many activities according to priority, and maintain a schedule or work. ??
* Socially active - A member of several social and community groups. Check
* A leader - Taking an active part in clubs, and organisations. An opinion maker. Check

I'm fairly happy with that outcome.

The response of the world to my list hasn't been good. If you don't like my list write your own. Start with the question: If I'm to be a person well adapted to living in the modern world, what skills, qualities and attributes do I need?

Take your time. I'd been writing my journal for 18 years before I came up with my original list.

John Stephen Veitch; The Network Ambassador
Open Future Limited - http://www.openfuture.co.nz/
Innovation Network - http://veech-network.ryze.com/
Building an Open Future - http://openfuture-network.ryze.com/

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Jan 11, 2010 2:11 pmre: Becoming a Modern Person - Personal Update 2009#

Ken Hilving
I don't know that your post invites a response. It is, after all, a statement rather than a question. :-)

The title, though, raises a question in my mind. The adjective "modern" implies that current or recent life is significantly unique versus the past. While I will grant that technology has increased dramatically in the past four or five generations, and that population has increased dramatically in the that same time span, does any of that change our humanity?

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Jan 12, 2010 3:25 amre: re: Becoming a Modern Person - Personal Update 2009#

John Stephen Veitch
Thanks for the response Kenneth.

I think the point is that anyone wanting to be seen as employable in any self directed position, needs to be seen as someone who is motivated and self directing.

So it's important that you keep up your physical fitness and appearance. That you dress appropriately, that you are interested in the community about you.

It's also important that you have some sort of specialist skill. But in my own case because of a twist of fate in my life, I've been out of sinc with my peers since the age of 32. That's caused me all sorts of employment problems, I never expected and for a long time didn't understand.

I didn't do a degree at 18 or 20, I was 32 when that opportunity became available to me. I lived in a small NZ city. I studied by correspondence, among the first to do so in NZ.

I was 40 when I qualified, but there were no entry points into the workforce, for older new graduates. (At the time I was the first adult business studies graduate in my area.)

So I did some other things, all of which added to my experience, but little to my income.

I've done some market research on how people use the Internet. Those with my sort of technical knowledge and experience are at least 15 and probably 20 years younger than me. The sort of people I should be partnering with, don't see me as a potential partner, rather, they try seek to get leverage off my work. That's OK, but I need opportunity too.

That research is here:
http://www.ate.co.nz/internet/survey2009.html#ages

I think it's important to you LIFE, to keep interested and active. Those who are working as hard online as I have, are often working in a second, or third choice task, because the environment in which they live doesn't make choices one and two possible.

So what you have to do is the best you can in the environment you've got, and with the tools you've got. Within that context, you have to be a "modern person". Then, given a fair wind, things should work out OK. But that's not a guarantee.

Each of us has one life. You have to USE it. The more you give, the more you learn, the more you participate the better it is likely to be.

John Stephen Veitch; The Network Ambassador
Open Future Limited - http://www.openfuture.co.nz/
Innovation Network - http://veech-network.ryze.com/
Building an Open Future - http://openfuture-network.ryze.com/

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Jan 12, 2010 1:49 pmre: re: re: Becoming a Modern Person - Personal Update 2009#

Ken Hilving
Thanks for the clarification. I had an entirely different perspective of what your context for this thread was.

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