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|Aug 10, 2007 7:41 am||Monica Molotkiewicz: People come into your life for a reason||#|
Lasse Burholt... Everywhere!
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People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a season, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank everyone for being a part of your life, as I do, whether they were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
~ Peace and Love!
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|Aug 13, 2007 7:29 pm||re: Monica Molotkiewicz: People come into your life for a reason||#|
Lisa Wald Guarino-horse artist
I really liked reading this article.
It shows that it's part of life.
Some people come into your life, then move on.
Some come in but something happens in the relationship that brakes the ties,
Some people come at a certain point of your life ...and
Some relationship last a long time.
I'd had at least one of each situation happen to me. Sometimes I felt bad when one had to move on (perhpas a move).
I felt sad about another that broke and we went are separate ways, tho it "Felt" needed.
I've met new friends (after moving to RI) that I feel have made a difference in my life and helped me grow.
And I have one or two that have been around for a really long time and still enjoy their company as we go thru our lives.
Things move and happen. It's just part of Life whether we know the reason or not.
Thanks for sharing
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